Monday, June 4, 2012

Everybody Needs Boundaries

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"Some fans wanna hug and kiss and touch..that's always interesting.  I don't know you...everybody needs boundaries."
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Marie-Josée Gauvin rencontre Adam Lambert.  Jump ahead in video here:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fhgRjpVwE1o#t=6m2s


He is eager to praise the loyalty of his fans, the Glamberts, appreciating that the time for a pop star to worry is when no one's camped outside their house at four in the morning; but he has seen things that disturb him, like fan fiction, the interpolation of your heroes into pornographic stories for the internet. "It was not an arousing experience," he says of reading about himself having it off. "The one I read was a little creepy. They always show me having relations with someone I have never – and would never – have relations with. I find it funny the fans get so wrapped up in those myths, but if they want to, they can go on fantasising about it."

http://www.guardian.co.uk/music/2012/jun/04/adam-lambert-american-idol-interview?CMP=twt_fd


Unfortunately, fans have been sending Adam links to fan fiction about him and Sauli, as if that wouldn't creep him out, too. Boundaries, people.  Please!



5 comments:

  1. boundaries are good not sure I could do what he does hugging people i don't know that freaks me out a little

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    1. A real hug is pretty intimate. He can probably feel breasts against his chest which is ~interesting.

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    2. Every person can connect with the Love which is inside everyone. It's a higher energy. That's what these hugs mean. We've all been so traumatized that we imagine we are unlovable, and seek attention from celebs. But it's all in the middle ground. I.e. we are not unlovable and Adam for one isn't a typical celeb, he's genuine. People feel that they can be open with him - which is a good thing. It's all part of the healing process.

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  2. so relieved he thinks fan fiction is creepy & fookin' sucks, too.

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    1. Just goes to show the openmindedness of some has its limits too. Imo, shipping is for when people are seen to not have found love yet - psychosexual arousal, you'd be surprised, gets you in connection with your true partner a lot sooner. You don't have the right to say that people's private desires suck. They may not all be great writers, but some fanfiction has helped people change their lives. It has healed trauma and brought self-empowerment.

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